tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-708541167896653880.post8799424519815899172..comments2024-02-23T23:05:55.799-08:00Comments on PollyAnna's Divorce: Adult bullying, aka High Drama CommunicationPollyAnnahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17505808535470419363noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-708541167896653880.post-89819658959108449282012-05-23T08:18:21.501-07:002012-05-23T08:18:21.501-07:00Hi, Lee, and thanks for popping in. We need our c...Hi, Lee, and thanks for popping in. We need our comrades in divorce! "Keeping your power because you give them the last word" - this is beautiful, and I'm going to try to remember it next time there is an unpleasant conversation in my life. I look forward to reading your additional posts, an to seeing you here again, especially if you're going to leave little gems like that behind. :-)PollyAnnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17505808535470419363noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-708541167896653880.post-73997670054916223752012-05-23T07:14:39.127-07:002012-05-23T07:14:39.127-07:00Sometimes you can't avoid the drama, so you ju...Sometimes you can't avoid the drama, so you just ignore ignore ignore. I wrote an article about the last word. Letting them have it and still keeping your power because you give them the last word. My ex thrives on drama, but it's not the drama, it's the win he likes. So, I let him think he wins, when in the end he loses because rarely does he get under my skin. You have to feel something for someone in order to react to them. When you feel nothing, you give nothing when they react. Boundaries are a beautiful thing! Thank you for stopping by and allowing me to find you, a comrade in divorce!Leehttp://www.postdivorcechronicles.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-708541167896653880.post-81669739154624995652012-05-22T22:05:37.897-07:002012-05-22T22:05:37.897-07:00You had this too? Argh what is with people?! I d...You had this too? Argh what is with people?! I don't get it either.<br /><br />It seems that being a grownup is more rare than I once believed. I used to think it was a function of age, but now I see that the two are barely related.PollyAnnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17505808535470419363noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-708541167896653880.post-55912642131659654312012-05-22T18:43:46.237-07:002012-05-22T18:43:46.237-07:00What the heck is up with neighbors threatening leg...What the heck is up with neighbors threatening legal actions over trees?<br /><br />(I've spewed on this topic myself.)<br /><br />I don't get it. I hear you. I feel you.<br /><br />I repeat: I don't get it. (Why can't grownups be grownups?)BigLittleWolfhttp://dailyplateofcrazy.comnoreply@blogger.com